Post by mitzi on Sept 30, 2010 8:50:40 GMT -6
Hello all..Im am new to web threads some and am the wife of a husband newly found to have a spinal tumor on his tail bone area found thru Mri'S..etc where he was sent for medical consult thinking it was a work related injury on his recently new found job of less than 60 days.He was covered under workmans comp til they found the tumor and it hasn't been 60 days to use the company insurance which starts after 60 days;so we have no medical coverage and the co. is making us pay back the prior money for drs bill once dx of tumor was found.Now we believe in God almightly faithfully and some times as great as God heals by himself;he brings drs into the picture as well.We just moved from Fl with no drs seeing him to now Pa with him being seen ,a great job and medical benifits after 60 days..I still see it being Gods handling to bring him to Pa. to find out he's having serious health issues that now are diagnosed propperly..last night he seems to now say he is believeing in the Lord and won't have surgery..he trusts the lord for total healing...but the Lord squeezes you then to a spot to run for the drs eventually as he is trying to show him now in imense pain but he sounds as if he is in total denial..what am i to do to try to be compassionate of the issue when now i can't even bring the subject up.In the long run;God forbid..im already disabled myself and how could i care for him and meet overwhelming needs when my own disability overwhelms me currently.He doesn't want to loose his job over the medical symptoms but i still say he isn't dealing with it..I fell like quietly;I am!! How can i help even when i respect his choices and how can we get any medical coverage for this..worrieed wife number 3!! Thanks and God Bless