My tumor buddy is gone

[deirdre612]

Hi everyone,

I know I don't post much these days so a lot of the new people won't know me. But I've just been told this morning that Kim Diamond, aka Momagirl, passed away yesterday in Auckland NZ. She didn't post much either, but we got to know each other through this website, we provided a lot of support for each other. We ended up working for the same company after she put me in touch with her boss here in Australia, she was the one and only employee in New Zealand. We even got to meet in July last year when she came to Sydney for a conference, it was one of the most amazing weeks I've ever had - to meet someone face to face who actually gets what I've been through, thats something extremely rare and special.

Kim had her 4th surgery 10 days after she returned to NZ in July last year, and had only been able to walk again in the past few months. She called me all excited to tell me about it, and sent me a video clip of her 'in action' on the parrallel bars. In spite of all the chemo and radiation she'd been through, living in a rehab facility, daily workouts with physios and therapists, she still had the biggest smile on her face. People think I'm positive in my approach to life. Let me tell you, I've got NOTHING on Kim, she blew everyone away with how positive she could make the worst news sound. And now shes gone, at the ripe old age of 28.

My one regret is that I didn't get a photo of the two of us together, she didn't like having pictures taken because she was so blown up on steroids and other assorted drugs.

Its been a real privilege to know someone like her, shes someone I'll never ever forget.

RIP Kim, I love you. XXX

[drummer904]

Im so sorry to hear about Kim, i didn't know of her but 28 years old is just way too saddening. I was 28 when i found out about my tumorand had the surgery so this hit me hard. Im sure she was an inspiration to everyone she came in contact with.

[cindylee]

I well remember Kim from the site. And remember you too Deidre. This is such a blow. May she forever rest in God's peace. Hold those memories in your heart, Deidre, and may they comfort you. Cindy

[Joel]

Dierdre:
This is the worst part about being on this site. It is just so hard to believe that people leave us so soon and so young sometimes. We must try to keep their memories alive through discussions such as this though. Thank you for sharing this with us Dierdre. I think she was able though to make a difference with her life.
Joel

[Ali-Brad]

Hi, I remember you Deirdre, as my sister lives in Sydney, so also remember ther connection. I reach the ripe old age of 45 in 2 weeks and feel proud to be where I am, considering the last 4 years. A lose at 28 is unfair and unthinkable. She fought hard, having four operations. It's a shame it didn't work out for her. Thank you for sharing this sad news.

Alison

[msweeney]

Deidre:

I am really sorry to hear of the loss of your dear friend, Kim. I always believe that when someone leaves this world they are able to give gifts much more tangible than their memories. I think they leave a part of their spirit with each of us that they touched during their lives. I hope that is the case for you through Kim. Do something special in her memory. I don't know if you remember Carol Miller, but I like to think they will meet in the sweet bye and bye and share some celestial laughs together!

Matt

[deirdre612]

Thank you all for your kind words. This is such a special group of people, I know Kim found everyone a fantastic source of information and support.

Matt, I do remember Carol Miller. I'm sure her and Kim will meet up somewhere to keep an eye on all of us, and make sure we're staying positive. ;D See, I'm smiling!