Post by gr8pub on Jun 11, 2013 21:51:04 GMT -6
Well since we are all friends here, I want to know if any other bloke out there has my problem(s) wrt SEX!
I had a large Schwannoma removed around 10 months ago from T11-12, L1 ( I think?) ....anyway about 2 cm from the base of the conus medularis. I have been left with Cauda equina syndrome and some of my conus has died as a consequence of the schwannoma depositing toxic blood there over a period of time.
So, I have a lot of issues, some big, some small below this point.
I'm paraplegic (incomplete) and can "walk"... So that's a good thing for me.
But.....here is my problem CONCERNING SEX......as soon as I get excited and think that this is going to feel real good, ...a "tap" turns on in my head and my semen just runs out of my penis, whether it is part erect or semi hard....I never get hard before this happens. This isn't an ejaculation as none of the "surging" happens. It simply pours out like a tap!...it's not premature ejaculation either.....IT SUCKS,
So this really ruins the act!
I cannot get over this and I have not had penetrative sex for so long.....this problems was happening before my surgery...so whatever nerve was being crushed is still damaged.
So, my sex life sucks...I cannot feel things down there properly and the only time I can get an erection is by close stimulation. I haven't been able to become erect by thinking about it for so long that I no longer am able to!
My wife is really understanding and whilst we haven"sex" it's all one way now...at least my wife is happy I guess!!
So, help!!!
Can anyone offer suggestions as it really is ruining things for me and my wife!!
Any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated!
Cheers
GT
I had a large Schwannoma removed around 10 months ago from T11-12, L1 ( I think?) ....anyway about 2 cm from the base of the conus medularis. I have been left with Cauda equina syndrome and some of my conus has died as a consequence of the schwannoma depositing toxic blood there over a period of time.
So, I have a lot of issues, some big, some small below this point.
I'm paraplegic (incomplete) and can "walk"... So that's a good thing for me.
But.....here is my problem CONCERNING SEX......as soon as I get excited and think that this is going to feel real good, ...a "tap" turns on in my head and my semen just runs out of my penis, whether it is part erect or semi hard....I never get hard before this happens. This isn't an ejaculation as none of the "surging" happens. It simply pours out like a tap!...it's not premature ejaculation either.....IT SUCKS,
So this really ruins the act!
I cannot get over this and I have not had penetrative sex for so long.....this problems was happening before my surgery...so whatever nerve was being crushed is still damaged.
So, my sex life sucks...I cannot feel things down there properly and the only time I can get an erection is by close stimulation. I haven't been able to become erect by thinking about it for so long that I no longer am able to!
My wife is really understanding and whilst we haven"sex" it's all one way now...at least my wife is happy I guess!!
So, help!!!
Can anyone offer suggestions as it really is ruining things for me and my wife!!
Any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated!
Cheers
GT